Men, did you know that the more comfortable you get with your prostate (male g-spot, aka the p-spot), you can experience multiple orgasms while still penetrating your partner (or masturbating)? Combined erogenous zone orgasms, such as adding the penis and the prostate together, are at least three times the intensity, and last much longer than the average five second isolated penile tension orgasm. If, as a man, you were able to experience multiple orgasms, would you need to make sure that you lasted more than a few minutes for your partner during sex?
Instead of learning to last longer and putting off your own pleasure, we stress learning to incorporate more than one erogenous zone at a time, to increase male multiple orgasmic potential. This leads to a much more balanced orgasmic potential while lovemaking, rather than one partner working exclusively for the other’s satisfaction; ironically, this mutually beneficial lovemaking is what makes sex ACTUALLY satisfying for both partners. One of the biggest reasons why men seek extra partners, and require frequent sex, is that they are externalizing their lack of sexual satisfaction, and believe that pleasing more partners, or being pleased by more partners, is the answer. However, awakening of the male prostate is a major factor in bringing sexual satisfaction to your lovemaking experiences; not by adding more linear sexual experiences or partners – it is about adding dimensions to your lovemaking.
To awaken your prostate, you will need to get over any fear or discomfort you may have of exploring it; it is located just underneath your bladder, reached via your anus. A partner massaging and milking your prostate regularly can help you bring awareness to your prostate, however, learning to use a prostate massaging tool, such as an Aneros or a prostate vibrator, will allow for more in-depth research. Using an Aneros during conventional sexual intercourse with your partner will only heighten the experience, and eventually, you’ll be able to experience powerful multiple orgasms that ripple throughout your body, without any softness or downtime in between them. Once awakened fully, the prostate will not even need manual stimulation, or an Aneros present, to be sensitive during conventional sexual positions.
Additionally, a lot of toxins have built up around and within your prostate that need to be released, and prostate massage will help clear them; expect some powerful migraines when you first begin milking your prostate. These toxins, and other tightness in and around your prostate, are physical manifestations of the emotional armor that has built up around it, blocking its sexual sensitivity. Doing some shadow work around your perceived usefulness, uselessness, helpfulness, and helplessness, so that you can realize your true inner value without needing to “do” actions to prove your worth (or otherwise risk rejection if found unworthy), is a good emotional area to explore for prostate shadow work.
Our Secret to Amazing Sex video series, especially videos 2-4, explores the ideas of value and worth, specifically in how it affects our sexuality, utilizing our shadow work process. To learn more about this EFT and shadow work video series, please click HERE.
These limiting beliefs about your value are central to blocking your prostate’s intense sexual potential, I feel that simply massaging your prostate without shadow work will not allow for the maximum depth in awareness that you could experience from prostate awakening.
I am personally aware of a man who has reached twenty six straight orgasms, without any downtime or energy loss, from combining the penis and prostate together in a sexual encounter, while my own record is five; although I know that I could experience more if I wanted to go that long. Again, I cannot stress this enough, why focus on lasting longer, postponing your own pleasure during sex, or adding more sexual partners, when instead you could focus on adding dimensions to your current sexual encounters?
Please see our other article on the subject: Increase Intimacy & Self-Awareness with Prostate Orgasms
For more information on the male prostate and prostate massage and orgasm, you can check out these books that are available on the Amazon Kindle:
- Prostate Health 101: Prostate Massage Benefits and Techniques
- The Prostate Massage Manual: What Every Man Needs To Know For Better Prostate Health and Sexual Pleasure
- How to Master the Male G-Spot!: What Every Man Wants But Won’t Tell You!
Interested in a prostate massage device with unlimited orgasmic potential? Give the Aneros a try: