Is ‘ABE’ a Metaphor for our Ego?

I found this comment on the following video and thought it was brilliant and insightful. If he knew how to fix himself he’d already be coping. All he knows is this selfish love, so he’s trying to work with what he knows. Unfortunately, most people function in this way. Instead of trying to understand their own condition they try to change the conditions of others to match their own. People forget the dynamic, and just […]
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“What” is Wisdom?

Wisdom is the ability to utilize both your knowledge and understanding in your actions. Knowledge answers “what” questions, understanding answers “why” questions, and wisdom is the synthesis of your “what” and “why” into your “how” questions/answers. If you jump into your “how” without first acquiring enough knowledge and understanding, you are not making a wise choice. ~Nathan & Aline
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Avoiding with Acceptance

Accepting what is without understanding ‘why’ things are as they are is avoidance, this form of acceptance is a trap that keeps one powerless. Being present with what is with the intent to understand it, is transformative and powerful, and allows for new feelings, and their associated experiences, to manifest. This form of presence accepts how things are, to notice the patterns; the ability to discern patterns is known as consciousness or awareness. Once a […]
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Why Am I Feeling this Way?

If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […]
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Ask Better Questions for a Better Life

You always receive the answers that vibrate at the frequency of the questions you ask; if you do not like how your life is manifesting, raise the vibration of your questions to pull in higher, more suitable answers. ~Nathan & Aline
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“How” to Ask Yourself “Why” Questions

Did you know that you create your own reality? As a child, you pull in the limiting patterns and beliefs from your parents, schools, society, and family of origin, through your experiences and interactions with them; these patterns become unconscious rules to live by, which are repeated for the rest of your life. The feelings that you experience are the messengers that reflect (like a mirror) back to you what your expectations, patterns, rules, and […]
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Lack of Awareness

Humanity does not suffer from a lack of compassion, but rather a lack of awareness in their compassion; there is a lack of understanding the root causes of their problems, and not a lack of action.  Instead of asking “how can we fix this problem?”, it will be beneficial to ask “why is this problem here in the first place?”, and then continue asking “why” until the emotional roots of the issue has been discovered […]
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A Life without Compromise

Compromise is two people meeting in the middle of their “how” questions and answers, but “why” questions and answers will ultimately allow both to experience life without giving something up to satisfy the other, ending the need for compromise.  To experience a life without compromising your Self while still connecting to people, you must master the art of asking “why” questions.  ~Nathan & Aline
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