Is ‘ABE’ a Metaphor for our Ego?

Is ‘ABE’ a Metaphor for our Ego?

I found this comment on the following video and thought it was brilliant and insightful. If he knew how to fix himself he’d already be coping. All he knows is this selfish love, so he’s trying to work with what he knows. Unfortunately, most people function in this way. Instead of trying to understand their own condition they try to change the conditions of others to match their own. People forget the dynamic, and just […] Read more »

What is Shadow Work & Why Should I do it?

What is Shadow Work & Why Should I do it?

To learn more about our concept of shadow work and “why” it is important to seek understanding while doing it, watch this informative video by Nathan & Aline (and their cat Luckzzy). More on the Trivium method of critical thinking: http://theUnityProcess.com/trivium Music Track “Contamination”, Courtesy of: http://www.purple-planet.com/ Read more »

“What” is Wisdom?

The Trivium & the Unity Process

Wisdom is the ability to utilize both your knowledge and understanding in your actions. Knowledge answers “what” questions, understanding answers “why” questions, and wisdom is the synthesis of your “what” and “why” into your “how” questions/answers. If you jump into your “how” without first acquiring enough knowledge and understanding, you are not making a wise choice. ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

Politically Correct Gender Preferences vs Making the Unconscious-Conscious

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This meme completely misses the bigger picture, and keeps people small and disempowered: The notion that because we were born with a particular sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, or mental illness, that we have no choice over such experiences, is a very limited perspective of the overall issue, more politically correct than actually correct. The only choice in the list above that really is out of our control in this material reality is our race of origin. […] Read more »

Avoiding with Acceptance

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Accepting what is without understanding ‘why’ things are as they are is avoidance, this form of acceptance is a trap that keeps one powerless. Being present with what is with the intent to understand it, is transformative and powerful, and allows for new feelings, and their associated experiences, to manifest. This form of presence accepts how things are, to notice the patterns; the ability to discern patterns is known as consciousness or awareness. Once a […] Read more »

Ask And You Shall Receive

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Geometry is the study of the relationship of one object to another, it is the math of relationship; and EVERYTHING is relationship. When we speak of the feminine and masculine, we are not talking about gender differences or societal stereotypes, we are speaking of a geometric relationship between the “being state” and the “doing state”, Creator and Creation, that is inherent within all manifested and unmanifested life. There is a masculine (child) and a feminine […] Read more »

Heart or Ego Choices?

If you find that you continually get burned by bad romantic decisions, you’re not discerning with your heart, you’re making choices from your egoic beliefs. The heart does not make bad choices, get you into trouble, or cause suffering, it always makes decisions that are beneficial for the highest good of all. Each pain you feel is because your egoic beliefs have put you into a compromised situation, not your heart. To choose from your […] Read more »

Why Am I Feeling this Way?

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If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […] Read more »

Ask Better Questions for a Better Life

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You always receive the answers that vibrate at the frequency of the questions you ask; if you do not like how your life is manifesting, raise the vibration of your questions to pull in higher, more suitable answers. ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

“How” to Ask Yourself “Why” Questions

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Did you know that you create your own reality? As a child, you pull in the limiting patterns and beliefs from your parents, schools, society, and family of origin, through your experiences and interactions with them; these patterns become unconscious rules to live by, which are repeated for the rest of your life. The feelings that you experience are the messengers that reflect (like a mirror) back to you what your expectations, patterns, rules, and […] Read more »

Bee Mine, Valentine in 2014!

Bee Mine Valentine!

On this Valentines Day, may we reflect on who we are and what we have, and dedicate to love ourselves more by seeking to understand who we are. Intimacy is of the heart, and thus is a state of being and not a doing, it does not come through doing loving actions, but by asking “why” we/they feel how we/they feel, “why” we/they have the experience that we/they have, and “why” we/they are the way […] Read more »

Approval and Judgment

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In everything you do, try asking yourself, “do I do this because I crave approval, or because I AM approved of already?” Then ask, “why am I acting this way for approval? Which parent or authority figure from my childhood am I attempting to prove myself to? Why do I keep entering the court of judgment for this approval?” The outside-in action based reality is all about seeking successful results from actions for external approval, […] Read more »

MONOGAMY OR POLYAMORY?

To compare Monogamy vs Polyamory is to stop asking “why” and to look for a “how” to fix the problem far too soon; it ends the conversation long before real understanding arrives. What people really crave is intimacy and unity, and those who have been disillusioned by Monogamy attempt to try something new, like Polyamory, in the hopes of finding the elusive connection that they feel is missing from their hearts…but it too fails. Both […] Read more »

Lack of Awareness

Humanity does not suffer from a lack of compassion, but rather a lack of awareness in their compassion; there is a lack of understanding the root causes of their problems, and not a lack of action.  Instead of asking “how can we fix this problem?”, it will be beneficial to ask “why is this problem here in the first place?”, and then continue asking “why” until the emotional roots of the issue has been discovered […] Read more »

Why Are Things the Way they Are?

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Asking more “how” questions and providing more “how” answers is just shifting the problem “from here to there”. The real solution lies in people who are able to start asking a series of “why” questions about “why we are the way we are”, and not being satisfied with the first few levels of “why” answers. Shallow “why” answers to promote more dissatisfying “how” answers is more of the same. Each person must start asking the […] Read more »

Cheat Proof Your Relationship

Questions & Answers

The way to “cheat proof” your relationship is through asking the right questions, which pulls the answers your way. For the masculine to feel safe, his heart must ask as many “why” questions as he can, which will keep his feminine heart answering his questions, instead of the “why” questions of other men. For the feminine to feel safe, she must open up her root pole and ask as many “how’ questions as she can, […] Read more »

A Life without Compromise

Compromise is two people meeting in the middle of their “how” questions and answers, but “why” questions and answers will ultimately allow both to experience life without giving something up to satisfy the other, ending the need for compromise.  To experience a life without compromising your Self while still connecting to people, you must master the art of asking “why” questions.  ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

Happy 2014 From the Hive

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Compassion is a “how” answer and awareness is a “why” answer, if you want to make the world a better place, giving more “how” answers is not going to solve any problems, it will just provide more of the same—and in some cases, entrench ourselves into deeper problems. “Why are we the way we are?” is a question that will bring in awareness, as it will create clarity and understanding about the beliefs and patterns […] Read more »