Escape from Victim, Villain, Savior, and the Duality Drama

The Duality Drama

We have the survival mechanism of “fight, flight, freeze, and tend & befriend”, because we’ve been conditioned to ask a very narrow set of questions, and seek for their narrow set of answers. This narrow line of questioning keeps us from experiencing the infinite potential available through the power of questions and answers. At the core of our dilemma are limiting questions, such as “how can I feel safe from villains?”, “how can I feel […] Read more »

Victim, Villain, & Savior vs Student & Teacher

The Divine Marriage

VICTIM / VILLAIN The victim replaced the student archetype (template), and when that happened, the teacher became the villain. However, if we are able to realign our victim as a student, the teacher will again appear, as it is said, “when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” We each have both archetypes within us: “If I am the victim, then I must also be a villain, and if I am the villain, then […] Read more »

How to Forgive

pretty woman refusing apologies from pleading boyfriend

When we wrote this, we had no idea that July 7th was international forgiveness day, we just love how the Universe works in concert like this!  xo <3  ~Nathan & Aline As we’ve stated before, we have found that understanding is the catalyst of forgiveness, and that forgiveness comes quite naturally after a person understands “why” any given bad thing may have happened to them.  “Why” is the pattern in their life in the first place?  “Why” are […] Read more »