Sex isn’t Meant to Put us to Sleep, it’s Meant to Awaken us

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Sex isn’t meant to put us to sleep, it’s meant to awaken us; this is true in practical everyday life, and it’s a metaphor for our spiritual journey of awakening as well.  It relates directly to the vibration in which we approach our partner, and how we relate to one another; if we’re approaching each other as a judge, we’ll feel drained and sleepy from the exchange.  However, if we approach one another as a […] Read more »

Tantric Technique: Being Present

We’ve been trained by society to be human doings rather than human beings, where we do things for and to people as a gift, but what if that is not how it is supposed to be? What if we the gift is our being and actions spring forth from the the being “being” with other people. What if actions are the result and not the cause of being with others? Being is the gift, while […] Read more »

Healing The 1000 Year Pain Between Men & Women with Andrew Barnes

Healing The 1000 Year Pain Between Men & Women with Andrew Barnes

Andrew Barnes, another energy tantra type practitioner, speaks of how gender roles have been conditioned into humanity over the past 120 or so years. He speaks of masculine and feminine energies, as well as the shadow side within.   I find it fascinating that he says that ejaculation is the male response to avoiding their feelings, and that a six month fast on ejaculation is necessary to reconnect a man to his emotions.  While I’m not […] Read more »

The Secret to Amazing Sex – Session #4

This is session #4 of the Secret to Amazing Sex EFT video series. In this session, we explore the roots of how ‘vanity’ and ’embarrassment’ play a role in sexual satisfaction, and how to get out of that loop to experience the mirror of sex in a way that reflects all of you, not just the good (vain) or bad (embarrassed) you, but both united as One. This issue relates to your business, money situation, […] Read more »

The Beginners Guide to Sex in the Afterlife

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“Spirit needs matter and matter needs spirit. Contrary to popular opinion, matter is no evil temptress, and spirit is no shackled saint.” ~David Staume, The Beginners Guide to Sex in the Afterlife “The consciousness of lovers will always merge to some degree.  Unselfish love is very powerful, and the essence of its effect is synthesis—bringing things together.  But when one person’s consciousness merges with another’s, it doesn’t mean that they lose their identity.  On the […] Read more »

Equality “do-gooders”

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“Buddha says if you have compassion without awareness, your compassion will be harmful. Do-gooders are the most mischievous people in the world. They don’t know what they are doing, but they are always doing something or other to help people.” ~Osho Equality, in any fashion, is compassionate do-gooding that lacks awareness, it doesn’t go far enough into asking why the problem exists in the first place, which makes it an unsatisfying “how to fix the […] Read more »

So You’d Like to Learn Unity Tantra, eh?

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So you’d like to learn Unity Tantra, eh? Unity Tantra is about uniting the four energetic poles (+ & -) within each person (two masculine and two feminine poles), to create a single toroidal field of unity together, also known as the Divine Marriage or Divine Union. In many tantric practices, skills and meditations are taught and meant to empower a person to become a better, more self-aware lover, and while skills are great, we […] Read more »

Freedom and Security Wounds

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The masculine’s freedom wound is an attempt within duality for him to regain his sense of authority, which he once experienced as his truth as a unity being, while the feminine’s security wound is an attempt within duality to regain her creative ability that she once experienced as her truth as a unity being. For who needs freedom when the masculine, in his full authority, is able to set his intentions harmoniously with his feminine, […] Read more »

The Myth of Masculine Withholding

Men have learned to withhold their sexual passions and desires from their partners to allow their women to experience one or more orgasms prior to their own release, this is done to be less selfish and more generous in their sexual practice. While it is true that many men need to get over their addiction to their own sexual release and should be more generous lovers, there is also an ego trap for those who […] Read more »

Entheo Radio YouTube Interview – Sept 19, 2013

Aline and I were recently interviewed by Hugh Alkemi on his Entheo Radio YouTube channel on a few topics.  The first was “What is Energy Orgasm?” (15:27), and the second was “What is Meant by Sexual Pain and Pleasure?” (25:40).  In the second video, we discuss resistance during sex, climax as a release and triumph over resistance, immature monogamy, mature monogamy, and polyamory. If you’re interested to hear our responses, you can watch and listen […] Read more »

Compassion and Awareness

There are so many good people and light workers in the world today that have, and are, messing the place up.  They charge off on their quest to make the world a better place without having a deep awareness of what exactly a better place looks or feels like.  They know something is wrong, but they haven’t explored the depths of their own soul in order to have a tangible understanding of what heaven on […] Read more »

Misconceptions About Surrender

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There is a misconception within many westernized Tantric communities on the meaning of the word “surrender” and how it applies to men and women. It is thrown around and used as a divine form of submission, especially as a proof of how much a woman trusts her man; to surrender to his divinely masculine love and heart. Unfortunately, this is nothing more than a duality consciousness attempt to understand a unity consciousness concept, it just […] Read more »