Sex is Simply a Reflection

Spiritual Bypassing

“What we do sexually with our partner may seem very different from what we do in the rest of our relationship, but it is in fact simply a reflection, however skewed or energetically magnified, of our overall relationship. What is not working in a relationship will show up in a couple’s sex life, no matter how much sex may seem to be a “solution” to or escape from the rest of the relationship. Once we […] Read more »

Sex isn’t Meant to Put us to Sleep, it’s Meant to Awaken us

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Sex isn’t meant to put us to sleep, it’s meant to awaken us; this is true in practical everyday life, and it’s a metaphor for our spiritual journey of awakening as well.  It relates directly to the vibration in which we approach our partner, and how we relate to one another; if we’re approaching each other as a judge, we’ll feel drained and sleepy from the exchange.  However, if we approach one another as a […] Read more »

To Survive or Thrive?

Sex & Money

Have you ever wondered why humanity lives in a perpetual state of survival, and why it is so difficult to get ahead and thrive? Why is it that certain people are placed as authorities over us, and that we need their permission to enjoy life? Why do we over consume? Why are we so competitive? If so, you may benefit from reading on… *Article is best viewed in fullscreen mode, click the icon in the […] Read more »

Tantric Technique: Being Present

We’ve been trained by society to be human doings rather than human beings, where we do things for and to people as a gift, but what if that is not how it is supposed to be? What if we the gift is our being and actions spring forth from the the being “being” with other people. What if actions are the result and not the cause of being with others? Being is the gift, while […] Read more »

Being Present is the Gift

“Being present is the gift, no action can equal the gift of being present with another person. We’ve gotten it backwards in our society, and it’s time that we change that; actions result from being, actions do not secure being. I’ll be here now with you, and you can be here now with me, and that is how we’ll be together.” ~Nathan & Aline Humanity uses actions to make money, which we then use to […] Read more »

Increase the Effectiveness of Self-Awareness with a Feedback Device

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This article is best viewed when in “Full Screen” mode, click the icon at the bottom right hand side of the Scribd embed of the article to achieve this. Increase the Effectiveness of Growth with a Feedback Device by Nathan Martin & Aline Van Meer   More on the “Feedback Device” between the Source and the Mirror, called here as us and the vacuum. He also discusses how it is “within” and “without” when worked […] Read more »

Healing The 1000 Year Pain Between Men & Women with Andrew Barnes

Healing The 1000 Year Pain Between Men & Women with Andrew Barnes

Andrew Barnes, another energy tantra type practitioner, speaks of how gender roles have been conditioned into humanity over the past 120 or so years. He speaks of masculine and feminine energies, as well as the shadow side within.   I find it fascinating that he says that ejaculation is the male response to avoiding their feelings, and that a six month fast on ejaculation is necessary to reconnect a man to his emotions.  While I’m not […] Read more »

Learning How to Have Sex is Easy

Unity Tantra

“Learning how to have sex is easy. Learning a sexual technique is easy. If it is so easy though, why does humanity continue to be sexually unsatisfied? The emotions, boundaries, and beliefs that contribute to sexual experiences, and especially the management of life force energy, continues to be largely ignored; depth of character and self-awareness changes your sexual experience more than a technique ever can.” ~Aline & Nathan Read more »

The Secret to Amazing Sex – Session #4

This is session #4 of the Secret to Amazing Sex EFT video series. In this session, we explore the roots of how ‘vanity’ and ’embarrassment’ play a role in sexual satisfaction, and how to get out of that loop to experience the mirror of sex in a way that reflects all of you, not just the good (vain) or bad (embarrassed) you, but both united as One. This issue relates to your business, money situation, […] Read more »

The Illusion of Freedom

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The concept of freedom does not exist within unity consciousness, it is only a reaction within duality consciousness to control being placed upon an individual, being, or entity; without perceived control, there is no need to be free from that control.  The freedom wound is the fear of being controlled, and while the security wound can be perceived as the fear of the freedom wound individuals doing actions that are considered unfaithful, impulsive, and unaware—actions […] Read more »

The Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil; the Tension Orgasm

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After watching the movie “Sex: The Secret Gate To Eden” on Gnostic and Kabbalistic sacred sexuality (below), which happens to be right up our proverbial alley, we felt that it didn’t go quite far enough, but it did spark our own insights and connect some dots with our own ‘gnosis”, you can check out our thoughts below the video.   OUR THOUGHTS ON THE VIDEO In ancient biblical Hebrew, the word used for sex is da’at, […] Read more »

I’d Tap That! The Secret to Amazing Sex EFT Webinar Series

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Simply trying to overcome our sexual experience with new choices and techniques places us in the position of a cat chasing its tail, we expend a tremendous amount of energy with little tangible rewards for our efforts. Actions are the result of who we are as a being, and the beliefs that we hold on to, no amount of changing our actions will change our beliefs or who we are. The Secret to Amazing Sex […] Read more »

Sexual Sensitivity & Relationship Roles

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The following are some observations of ours based on our own experiences with sexual sensitivity, and how it relates to relationship patterns and types within this dualistic dimension. There are two roles that a person can experience within a relationship, based on the pole pairing that they fit best into, the heart poles are the parent role, while the root poles are the children role. Two children can come together sexually and experience amazing sex […] Read more »

Lust and Greed – Externalized Personal Power

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Lust is externalized creativity, and as such, is feminine, while greed is externalized abundance, and as such, is masculine; and both are currently governed by our reptilian (first) brain’s instinctual tendency to externalize creativity and abundance. When this pattern of externalizing is overcome, greed and lust are transformed and brought back into the Self, giving an individual back their personal power, their restored creativity and abundance. While both of these lacking tendencies are within each […] Read more »

Entheo Radio YouTube Interview – Sept 19, 2013

Aline and I were recently interviewed by Hugh Alkemi on his Entheo Radio YouTube channel on a few topics.  The first was “What is Energy Orgasm?” (15:27), and the second was “What is Meant by Sexual Pain and Pleasure?” (25:40).  In the second video, we discuss resistance during sex, climax as a release and triumph over resistance, immature monogamy, mature monogamy, and polyamory. If you’re interested to hear our responses, you can watch and listen […] Read more »