Letting Go is Not Positive Thinking

Letting go is not positive thinking, which is an emotional or spiritual escapism to avoid painful feelings and situations.  Letting go is the ability to face your painful feelings and situations head on, to become intimate with them, and to understand them fully; it neutralizes the painful charge associated with the negative feelings and situations.  Letting go doesn’t embrace the positive to avoid the negative, it embraces and reconciles both to experience a life of […]
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Positive Thinking?

“Positive thinking is the ultimate way to distract and disconnect ourselves from our perceived flaws, imperfections, quirks, uniquenesses, the secret darkness that we try so hard to hide. We strive to cover up the ‘bad’ aspects of our experience without actually dealing with them, facing them, embracing them, healing them, loving them. We stop seeing the beauty, and perhaps even the awesome potential, in the ‘negativity’. Reject half of life, and we will surely always […]
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