Why we Over-commit in Life

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Often our tendency to over-commit comes from a shadow. It comes from a need to prove that we are smart enough, worthy enough, successful enough, to please others or obtain validation and approval from the outside world. ~The Ford Institute The most successful people in our world are over committed to a particular area of their lives, it is not motivated by their creative passions, but by their passion to make a distant (or not […] Read more »

Energetic Boundaries

You Won't Have to...

Neo: What are you trying to tell me, that I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No Neo. I’m trying to tell you that when you’re ready, you won’t have to. Nathan & Aline: After you master the shadow work process, and integrate your darkness and light back into the One within, you will individuate from the collective (un)consciousness and transcend the fight, flight, and freeze survival instinct; this will allow you to experience a new type […] Read more »

How to Forgive

pretty woman refusing apologies from pleading boyfriend

When we wrote this, we had no idea that July 7th was international forgiveness day, we just love how the Universe works in concert like this!  xo <3  ~Nathan & Aline As we’ve stated before, we have found that understanding is the catalyst of forgiveness, and that forgiveness comes quite naturally after a person understands “why” any given bad thing may have happened to them.  “Why” is the pattern in their life in the first place?  “Why” are […] Read more »

Integration Creates Neutrality

Silhouette of a hacker isloated on black

Integration of the opposites within duality creates energetic neutrality. I see  duality as a binary computer code, with zeroes and one’s, while unity as a ternary computer code, with negative one’s, zeroes, and one’s. Where the predictive nature of duality is imbalanced with haves (one’s or negative one’s) and have not’s (zeroes), which is why there is the perpetual tension between domination and submission.  It can be the dark side with negative one (-1) and zero (0), […] Read more »

Letting Go is Not Positive Thinking

Letting go is not positive thinking, which is an emotional or spiritual escapism to avoid painful feelings and situations.  Letting go is the ability to face your painful feelings and situations head on, to become intimate with them, and to understand them fully; it neutralizes the painful charge associated with the negative feelings and situations.  Letting go doesn’t embrace the positive to avoid the negative, it embraces and reconciles both to experience a life of […] Read more »

Morality, Duality, Purity, and Unity


Here is a new pattern that we discovered that demonstrates how the chakra system and the poles relate…that there are two different combination of root/heart poles, one dualistic and one in unity. This first graphic is the duality version, where the heart pole is the top four chakras, and the root pole is the bottom two chakras, with the third chakra controlling everything—this is known as the ego. In the second graphic to the right […] Read more »