Inside-out vs Outside-in Happiness

One of things that I remember well from my years of dating is the need of many of the women to feel responsible for my happiness, as it reinforced their own desire to feel special, and to feel secure within the relationship. They would say “I’ve never felt this way before, have you?” I knew that they were fishing for emotional validation for our relationship, and wanting for me to reply “no, only you have […] Read more »