The Importance of Feedback & Reclaiming our Personal Power

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Each feeling we have is a feedback device, and like a speedometer in the car, it gives feedback about what is going on within each moment. When the feedback is related to any of the three core negative feelings of anger, sadness, or fear, we can look for a similar experience from our first eight years of life (the first eight years is where we get programmed, since we are in an open state of […] Read more »

Enlightened or Asleep?

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An awakened being still has feelings, including anger, sadness, and fear, only a self-deluded ego will pretend to have transcended their feelings to prove their supposed enlightened spiritual status. The biggest difference between an awake and an asleep individual is that the awake person is conscious and aware of their feelings, and has the capacity to understand why they are feeling them in the first place, while the sleeping are too busy suppressing theirs, blaming […] Read more »

Building Better Boundaries

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Written by Robert Augustus Masters Healthy boundaries protect what needs to be protected. Such boundaries say a “no” that makes possible a deeper, more authentic yes. Of course, we can be overboundaried, overly protective of ourselves, defended to the point of cutting ourselves off from what we need, overbudgeting for defense. And we can also be underboundaried, not standing up for ourselves, letting others in in ways that do not serve us. But beyond these […] Read more »

Tap Out the Limiting Belief that Setting Boundaries is NOT Loving

Tap Out the Limiting Belief that Setting Boundaries is NOT Loving

For some people, setting boundaries can be a guilt ridden affair, as they feel punishing and unloving by setting healthy limits. It is usually the tyrants and dictators of the family that seem to have no problem setting boundaries, so an association is made in the brain between limits and being a callous and unloving jerk. The problem is, tyrants do not set healthy limits, they are controlling and hot tempered, they demonstrate that they […] Read more »

Learning How to Have Sex is Easy

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“Learning how to have sex is easy. Learning a sexual technique is easy. If it is so easy though, why does humanity continue to be sexually unsatisfied? The emotions, boundaries, and beliefs that contribute to sexual experiences, and especially the management of life force energy, continues to be largely ignored; depth of character and self-awareness changes your sexual experience more than a technique ever can.” ~Aline & Nathan Read more »

Integration Creates Neutrality

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Integration of the opposites within duality creates energetic neutrality. I see  duality as a binary computer code, with zeroes and one’s, while unity as a ternary computer code, with negative one’s, zeroes, and one’s. Where the predictive nature of duality is imbalanced with haves (one’s or negative one’s) and have not’s (zeroes), which is why there is the perpetual tension between domination and submission.  It can be the dark side with negative one (-1) and zero (0), […] Read more »

Disclosure Will Happen When…

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Disclosure between the government and the people will never fully happen until you are able to tell the truth to those you love. If you do not think that your loved ones can handle the responsibility the truth brings, and continue to remain over responsible for their feelings by keeping the truth of your feelings a secret, the government will keep reflecting this belief system back to you. Do you have skeletons in your closet […] Read more »

The Simple Life

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To an untrained heart, asking “why” to understand may seem complicated and unnecessary, while finding a “how” solution to skirt around uncomfortable feelings may feel simpler.  We agree, digging out of the web of lies that you have buried yourself in can feel quite complicated, but once the lies are all gone, life becomes extremely simple.  ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

Why Am I Feeling this Way?

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If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […] Read more »

The Sacred Geometry and Patterns of Duality and Unity

This article details the relationship patterns between the masculine and feminine energies within a person that reflect in external relationships of all types. A sacred geometric model is suggested for duality and another is suggested for unity. Answers on how to move from a dualistic pattern to a unity pattern is discussed as a possibility for those who choose to make the transition. Read more »