Escape from Victim, Villain, Savior, and the Duality Drama

The Duality Drama

We have the survival mechanism of “fight, flight, freeze, and tend & befriend”, because we’ve been conditioned to ask a very narrow set of questions, and seek for their narrow set of answers. This narrow line of questioning keeps us from experiencing the infinite potential available through the power of questions and answers. At the core of our dilemma are limiting questions, such as “how can I feel safe from villains?”, “how can I feel […] Read more »

Beyond Boundaries: Why we Unconsciously Create the Need for Them

Beyond Boundaries: Why we Unconsciously Create the Need for Them

In previous videos we discussed what boundaries are and are not, and tapped out misunderstandings in regards to them. However, in this video, we discuss the limiting belief pattern that makes boundaries a necessity to our survival, and then we generically tap on the belief. Deep down, the chaos in the world around us, and especially in those close to us, bothers us–for it reminds us of us. So we find ways to disconnect from, […] Read more »

To Survive or Thrive?

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Have you ever wondered why humanity lives in a perpetual state of survival, and why it is so difficult to get ahead and thrive? Why is it that certain people are placed as authorities over us, and that we need their permission to enjoy life? Why do we over consume? Why are we so competitive? If so, you may benefit from reading on… *Article is best viewed in fullscreen mode, click the icon in the […] Read more »

Tap Out the Limiting Belief that Setting Boundaries is NOT Loving

Tap Out the Limiting Belief that Setting Boundaries is NOT Loving

For some people, setting boundaries can be a guilt ridden affair, as they feel punishing and unloving by setting healthy limits. It is usually the tyrants and dictators of the family that seem to have no problem setting boundaries, so an association is made in the brain between limits and being a callous and unloving jerk. The problem is, tyrants do not set healthy limits, they are controlling and hot tempered, they demonstrate that they […] Read more »

Gandhi Groups – Water & Property Rights – EFT Activism

Gandhi Groups – Water & Property Rights – EFT Activism

  Experience EFT Activism in this Gandhi Group special session with Nathan Martin, of the Divine Pollination Hive. Gandhi Groups are your opportunity to “be the change you wish to see in the world”, by going within to change yourself, instead of giving your power away in a power struggle. When we objectify ourselves, and our “things”, such as water, then we become an object, and an object can be taken away, or fought over. […] Read more »

Setting Good Limits

Setting Good Limits

“Setting good limits is one of the best ways to take care of yourself.” ~Love and Logic Institute It is important to realize though, that limits and boundaries never tell a person what to do, nor do they punish people for not doing it our way, setting limits is telling people what we will and will not do, and allowing natural consequences to do the rest.   Again, natural consequences is NOT a punishment! Example:  “I only […] Read more »

The Secret to Amazing Sex – Session #4

This is session #4 of the Secret to Amazing Sex EFT video series. In this session, we explore the roots of how ‘vanity’ and ’embarrassment’ play a role in sexual satisfaction, and how to get out of that loop to experience the mirror of sex in a way that reflects all of you, not just the good (vain) or bad (embarrassed) you, but both united as One. This issue relates to your business, money situation, […] Read more »

I’d Tap That! The Secret to Amazing Sex EFT Webinar Series

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Simply trying to overcome our sexual experience with new choices and techniques places us in the position of a cat chasing its tail, we expend a tremendous amount of energy with little tangible rewards for our efforts. Actions are the result of who we are as a being, and the beliefs that we hold on to, no amount of changing our actions will change our beliefs or who we are. The Secret to Amazing Sex […] Read more »

“How” to Ask Yourself “Why” Questions

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Did you know that you create your own reality? As a child, you pull in the limiting patterns and beliefs from your parents, schools, society, and family of origin, through your experiences and interactions with them; these patterns become unconscious rules to live by, which are repeated for the rest of your life. The feelings that you experience are the messengers that reflect (like a mirror) back to you what your expectations, patterns, rules, and […] Read more »

EFT Certification Courses

Hive Certification EFT Level 1

EFT Level 1 Practitioner Course: Since our brand of EFT is founded in Self-discovery and integration of the shadow side within, we feel that changing the being is much more important than giving you action based exercises and techniques that merely change your doing. We feel that experiential understanding and Self-awareness are the most important aspect of an EFT practitioner, not your book knowledge and technical smarts, therefore we assist you in releasing the emotional, […] Read more »

Problems Speaking My Truth – EFT Tapping Video

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In this video, Nathan speaks about the “why” and the “how”, and why it is important to understand our actions, instead of just finding a different solution. He also answers a blog reader’s question about their own current struggles, and provides a 17 minute EFT tapping session to assist in reaching a deeper understanding.   Read more »

Guilt is the Food of Addiction

Guilt is the food of addiction; when you transmute your guilt into awareness, you will starve your addictions and they will fade away.  Guilt is a misrepresentation of awareness, so when you become aware of your patterns, cravings, etc., you can then change those patterns.  Simply feeling guilty about the results that the patterns create is not productive, for guilt actually causes the patterns to become entrenched and to continue, while awareness whittles them away. […] Read more »

Tapping on Masculine & Feminine Beliefs w/ EFT

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[This is a reprint of a page that we had on our site, but we moved it here for easier access, it was originally written in February of 2012.] There is a deep misconception about the roles of masculine and feminine energy in the world right now, and it has been there for quite a long time.  The belief is that masculine energy is a dominant energy, while feminine energy is a submissive energy.  This […] Read more »

Gandhi Groups

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Yes, you can change the world by changing yourself. When you watch things in the news or on YouTube that scare you, instead of ignoring them, positive thinking, or panicking, you can now choose to work through them. Find out how the macro events that are threatening your safety and freedom relate to your individual (micro) experience, and neutralize them; in this way, you take your power back and heal not only yourself, but your […] Read more »

Insights from Dreams on 9/18/13

These are the lessons and insights I received from my dreams on 9/18/2013, about the dualistic dimension in which we live. I find that paying attention to the patterns in my dreams helps me to better understand life. This particular lesson was very interesting to me, so I felt that I would share it with you. Read more »

Misconceptions About Surrender

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There is a misconception within many westernized Tantric communities on the meaning of the word “surrender” and how it applies to men and women. It is thrown around and used as a divine form of submission, especially as a proof of how much a woman trusts her man; to surrender to his divinely masculine love and heart. Unfortunately, this is nothing more than a duality consciousness attempt to understand a unity consciousness concept, it just […] Read more »

Three Bridges to Unity Consciousness

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EFT, DIVINE POLLINATION, & ANGELIC RECONNECTION Humankind has been living in separation for a very long time, and in the midst of this game of fragmentation playing out we have forgotten who we are. We have been searching for ourselves in others and things and it has been very enriching for our souls, but it is now coming to a close. In this separation it has been impossible for us to come close to experiencing […] Read more »