Setting Good Limits

“Setting good limits is one of the best ways to take care of yourself.” ~Love and Logic Institute It is important to realize though, that limits and boundaries never tell a person what to do, nor do they punish people for not doing it our way, setting limits is telling people what we will and will not do, and allowing natural consequences to do the rest.   Again, natural consequences is NOT a punishment! Example:  “I only […]
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Heart or Ego Choices?

If you find that you continually get burned by bad romantic decisions, you’re not discerning with your heart, you’re making choices from your egoic beliefs. The heart does not make bad choices, get you into trouble, or cause suffering, it always makes decisions that are beneficial for the highest good of all. Each pain you feel is because your egoic beliefs have put you into a compromised situation, not your heart. To choose from your […]
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