How to Forgive

When we wrote this, we had no idea that July 7th was international forgiveness day, we just love how the Universe works in concert like this!  xo <3  ~Nathan & Aline As we’ve stated before, we have found that understanding is the catalyst of forgiveness, and that forgiveness comes quite naturally after a person understands “why” any given bad thing may have happened to them.  “Why” is the pattern in their life in the first place?  “Why” are […]
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One Reason Why We Blame

“Sometimes we will keep people around us that carry the potential to harm us, so that if something happens, we can blame them for the trouble and pain we feel.  Our security wound will intentionally attract a freedom wound person as a friend or lover as an insurance policy for our own safety, as it feels safer to have somebody to blame for a misdeed than to own all of our own feelings, patterns, and […]
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Why Am I Feeling this Way?

If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […]
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