Escape from Victim, Villain, Savior, and the Duality Drama

The Duality Drama

We have the survival mechanism of “fight, flight, freeze, and tend & befriend”, because we’ve been conditioned to ask a very narrow set of questions, and seek for their narrow set of answers. This narrow line of questioning keeps us from experiencing the infinite potential available through the power of questions and answers. At the core of our dilemma are limiting questions, such as “how can I feel safe from villains?”, “how can I feel […] Read more »

Politically Correct Gender Preferences vs Making the Unconscious-Conscious

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This meme completely misses the bigger picture, and keeps people small and disempowered: The notion that because we were born with a particular sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, or mental illness, that we have no choice over such experiences, is a very limited perspective of the overall issue, more politically correct than actually correct. The only choice in the list above that really is out of our control in this material reality is our race of origin. […] Read more »

Paradigm Changing

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Asking questions is the most dangerous thing that a person can do to threaten the current societal paradigm…this is why they try to imprint their own questions onto us through social conditioning; schools, media, political, and religious means. You don’t need to be an activist, you don’t need to change their minds, you don’t even need to stop their actions, you just need to keep asking as many questions as you can, and keep seeking […] Read more »

Why Am I Feeling this Way?

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If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […] Read more »

Ask Better Questions for a Better Life

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You always receive the answers that vibrate at the frequency of the questions you ask; if you do not like how your life is manifesting, raise the vibration of your questions to pull in higher, more suitable answers. ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

“How” to Ask Yourself “Why” Questions

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Did you know that you create your own reality? As a child, you pull in the limiting patterns and beliefs from your parents, schools, society, and family of origin, through your experiences and interactions with them; these patterns become unconscious rules to live by, which are repeated for the rest of your life. The feelings that you experience are the messengers that reflect (like a mirror) back to you what your expectations, patterns, rules, and […] Read more »

MONOGAMY OR POLYAMORY?

To compare Monogamy vs Polyamory is to stop asking “why” and to look for a “how” to fix the problem far too soon; it ends the conversation long before real understanding arrives. What people really crave is intimacy and unity, and those who have been disillusioned by Monogamy attempt to try something new, like Polyamory, in the hopes of finding the elusive connection that they feel is missing from their hearts…but it too fails. Both […] Read more »

Why Are Things the Way they Are?

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Asking more “how” questions and providing more “how” answers is just shifting the problem “from here to there”. The real solution lies in people who are able to start asking a series of “why” questions about “why we are the way we are”, and not being satisfied with the first few levels of “why” answers. Shallow “why” answers to promote more dissatisfying “how” answers is more of the same. Each person must start asking the […] Read more »

Cheat Proof Your Relationship

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The way to “cheat proof” your relationship is through asking the right questions, which pulls the answers your way. For the masculine to feel safe, his heart must ask as many “why” questions as he can, which will keep his feminine heart answering his questions, instead of the “why” questions of other men. For the feminine to feel safe, she must open up her root pole and ask as many “how’ questions as she can, […] Read more »

A Life without Compromise

Compromise is two people meeting in the middle of their “how” questions and answers, but “why” questions and answers will ultimately allow both to experience life without giving something up to satisfy the other, ending the need for compromise.  To experience a life without compromising your Self while still connecting to people, you must master the art of asking “why” questions.  ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

Happy 2014 From the Hive

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Compassion is a “how” answer and awareness is a “why” answer, if you want to make the world a better place, giving more “how” answers is not going to solve any problems, it will just provide more of the same—and in some cases, entrench ourselves into deeper problems. “Why are we the way we are?” is a question that will bring in awareness, as it will create clarity and understanding about the beliefs and patterns […] Read more »

Equality “do-gooders”

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“Buddha says if you have compassion without awareness, your compassion will be harmful. Do-gooders are the most mischievous people in the world. They don’t know what they are doing, but they are always doing something or other to help people.” ~Osho Equality, in any fashion, is compassionate do-gooding that lacks awareness, it doesn’t go far enough into asking why the problem exists in the first place, which makes it an unsatisfying “how to fix the […] Read more »

The Secret to a Powerful Life

“Here is the secret to a powerful life: ask more of your questions and stop asking the questions that you were conditioned to ask by your family, media, religion, and society. Your personal power lies within asking questions that empower your intimate and material worlds; for more material support continually ask “how” questions, and for more emotional intimacy continually ask “why” questions. When you ask a question, the answer will always come, just make sure […] Read more »

Your Answers are Within

Many spiritual traditions teach that the enlightened no longer ask questions or require answers, however, they could not be further from the truth. Both questions and answers abound for the enlightened, but they have honed their ability to ask their own questions, instead of the questions installed onto them through childhood experiences and societal conditioning. It is the directional flow and pattern of the questions and answers that is the main difference, for when a master […] Read more »

The Power of Questions

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Would you like to live an empowered life, one where you have all the happiness, intimacy, love, and material support you could ever desire? Are you struggling with money, success, relationships, or romance? Then read the following article to learn how easy it is to improve your life with intentional questioning and shadow work. To read below, just click the link or toggle full screen mode. The Power of Questions by Nathan Martin & Aline […] Read more »

Questions and Answers

“To be in the question is to live and experience life in a way that allows for personal evolution, for once you have all of the answers, you know it all and are stagnant; you cease growing and flowing. The connection to universal flow is found within the question, it is the place where the stream of answers eternally springs forth into being.” ~Nathan Martin & Aline Van Meer   Read more »