Being Present is the Gift

“Being present is the gift, no action can equal the gift of being present with another person. We’ve gotten it backwards in our society, and it’s time that we change that; actions result from being, actions do not secure being. I’ll be here now with you, and you can be here now with me, and that is how we’ll be together.” ~Nathan & Aline Humanity uses actions to make money, which we then use to […] Read more »

Carl Jung: Thirteen Quotations on the Shadow

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Originally blogged by STEPHEN PARKER, PH.D on JANUARY 26, 2011 on jungcurrents.com. The shadow is a moral problem that challenges the whole ego-personality, for no one can become conscious of the shadow without considerable moral effort. To become conscious of it involves recognizing the dark aspects of the personality as present and real. This act is the essential condition for any kind of self-knowledge. Aion (1951). CW 9, Part II: P.14 Filling the conscious mind with […] Read more »

Increase the Effectiveness of Self-Awareness with a Feedback Device

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This article is best viewed when in “Full Screen” mode, click the icon at the bottom right hand side of the Scribd embed of the article to achieve this. Increase the Effectiveness of Growth with a Feedback Device by Nathan Martin & Aline Van Meer   More on the “Feedback Device” between the Source and the Mirror, called here as us and the vacuum. He also discusses how it is “within” and “without” when worked […] Read more »

Healing The 1000 Year Pain Between Men & Women with Andrew Barnes

Healing The 1000 Year Pain Between Men & Women with Andrew Barnes

Andrew Barnes, another energy tantra type practitioner, speaks of how gender roles have been conditioned into humanity over the past 120 or so years. He speaks of masculine and feminine energies, as well as the shadow side within.   I find it fascinating that he says that ejaculation is the male response to avoiding their feelings, and that a six month fast on ejaculation is necessary to reconnect a man to his emotions.  While I’m not […] Read more »

Learning How to Have Sex is Easy

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“Learning how to have sex is easy. Learning a sexual technique is easy. If it is so easy though, why does humanity continue to be sexually unsatisfied? The emotions, boundaries, and beliefs that contribute to sexual experiences, and especially the management of life force energy, continues to be largely ignored; depth of character and self-awareness changes your sexual experience more than a technique ever can.” ~Aline & Nathan Read more »

How to Neutralize Conflict

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The best way we’ve found to deal with any supposed atrocity, supposed because there is always a duality of good vs evil, us vs them, freedom vs security, chaos vs order, and yin vs yang in all conflicts, is to realize how you are the yang (order/good) and honor it, and realize how you are the yin (chaos/evil), and honor it too. I am the evil I perceive, and I am the good that I […] Read more »

How to Forgive

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When we wrote this, we had no idea that July 7th was international forgiveness day, we just love how the Universe works in concert like this!  xo <3  ~Nathan & Aline As we’ve stated before, we have found that understanding is the catalyst of forgiveness, and that forgiveness comes quite naturally after a person understands “why” any given bad thing may have happened to them.  “Why” is the pattern in their life in the first place?  “Why” are […] Read more »

It’s Easier to Fool People…

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“It’s easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled.” ~Mark Twain Those without understanding are easy to fool.   Discernment is sorely lacking, especially these days…to discern, the heart must be active, and to do that, it is important to ask “why” every time you lack understanding… understanding upgrades your discernment, which makes you harder to fool. ~Nathan Read more »

Balancing the Freedom and Security Wounds

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In earlier posts, we mentioned that we work almost exclusively with the two duality wounds, “freedom” and “security”, and how the freedom wound relates to “chaos”, and that the security wound represents “order” from the yin/yang symbol.  We’re going to develop that a bit now. There are two areas in which people will act out their particular wound within them, greed/sacrifice and lust/jealousy; which are the split up halves of abundance and satisfaction accordingly.  Stereotypically, women tend […] Read more »

Spiritual Bypassing at its Finest

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“Very often people say to me, ‘Mooji, I am so unhappy but you don’t seem to care or even want to know what is going on.’ And actually, it is true. I don’t want to know what you think is going on. And, I don’t believe you. Nothing is going on. You are happy by nature but think you are unhappy. Your unhappiness is totally made up. You are just too lazy to look inside […] Read more »

Romance drugs us; love awakens us.

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Just about anyone can get romantic, but far fewer can truly love and sustain love. Romance asks little more of us than popping a pill, but love — especially love in genuinely intimate relationship — asks for plenty, requiring not just our hearts but also our wakefulness, our integrity and discernment, and our on-tap capacity to both open and protect ourselves. Cutting through our romantic illusions does not, however, mean an end to relational magic; […] Read more »

Understanding Promotes Change

Learning a technique cannot change who you are, it can only show you, and help you manage, who you are; true change only comes from deeply understanding why you are who you are.  So if you really want to use a technique to grow, only use those that promote understanding yourself. ~Nathan & Aline

Learning a technique cannot change who you are, it can only show you, and help you manage, who you are; true change only comes from deeply understanding why you are who you are. So if you really want to use a technique to change, use those that promote understanding who you are. ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

Does joy come to you, or does joy come from you?

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Does joy come to you, or does joy come from you? If it is the former, you are dependent on others for your joyful experiences, and they are also dependent upon you; you are an object that must compete for the affections and energy of others, against other objects. This mentality will often leave you feeling frustrated when you are unable to secure the joy that you feel you should have, causing you to exert […] Read more »

Lost in the Mirrors

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Duality is a holographic projection, a labyrinth of mirrors that humanity has become lost in…to get out, each person must understand what every mirror in their life is showing them about who they are, and follow the breadcrumbs back to Unity. ~Nathan & Aline     For more on this “Mirror Art”, please see the article:  This is What Happens When You Build a Cube Out of One Way Mirrors Read more »

The Source & the Mirror

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The mirrors go away when the creation goes away, therefore, they won’t…there are two partners, the feminine Source (God), and her masculine Mirror (Creation), the Source is able to see herself when she looks into the mirror, it helps her to “know” herself in a more intimate fashion, she gets to see who she really is, as broken, or whole, as she may be.The problem arises when she doesn’t like what she sees when she looks […] Read more »

Paradigm Changing

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Asking questions is the most dangerous thing that a person can do to threaten the current societal paradigm…this is why they try to imprint their own questions onto us through social conditioning; schools, media, political, and religious means. You don’t need to be an activist, you don’t need to change their minds, you don’t even need to stop their actions, you just need to keep asking as many questions as you can, and keep seeking […] Read more »

Does God Really Help Those Who Help Themselves?

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The old saying “God helps those who help themselves” may be more true than previously realized, as the freewill of an individual cannot be imposed upon, especially by God. God cannot save you from yourself, She can only give you the necessary tools to dig yourself out of your own self-created prison(s), and then allow you do so. The boundaries of your prison(s) are your perceptions and patterns of relating, they shape your reality and […] Read more »

Integration Creates Neutrality

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Integration of the opposites within duality creates energetic neutrality. I see  duality as a binary computer code, with zeroes and one’s, while unity as a ternary computer code, with negative one’s, zeroes, and one’s. Where the predictive nature of duality is imbalanced with haves (one’s or negative one’s) and have not’s (zeroes), which is why there is the perpetual tension between domination and submission.  It can be the dark side with negative one (-1) and zero (0), […] Read more »