Romance drugs us; love awakens us.

Just about anyone can get romantic, but far fewer can truly love and sustain love. Romance asks little more of us than popping a pill, but love — especially love in genuinely intimate relationship — asks for plenty, requiring not just our hearts but also our wakefulness, our integrity and discernment, and our on-tap capacity to both open and protect ourselves. Cutting through our romantic illusions does not, however, mean an end to relational magic; […]
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Understanding Promotes Change

Learning a technique cannot change who you are, it can only show you, and help you manage, who you are; true change only comes from deeply understanding why you are who you are. So if you really want to use a technique to change, use those that promote understanding who you are. ~Nathan & Aline
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Does joy come to you, or does joy come from you?

Does joy come to you, or does joy come from you? If it is the former, you are dependent on others for your joyful experiences, and they are also dependent upon you; you are an object that must compete for the affections and energy of others, against other objects. This mentality will often leave you feeling frustrated when you are unable to secure the joy that you feel you should have, causing you to exert […]
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Lost in the Mirrors

Duality is a holographic projection, a labyrinth of mirrors that humanity has become lost in…to get out, each person must understand what every mirror in their life is showing them about who they are, and follow the breadcrumbs back to Unity. ~Nathan & Aline     For more on this “Mirror Art”, please see the article:  This is What Happens When You Build a Cube Out of One Way Mirrors
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The Source & the Mirror

The mirrors go away when the creation goes away, therefore, they won’t…there are two partners, the feminine Source (God), and her masculine Mirror (Creation), the Source is able to see herself when she looks into the mirror, it helps her to “know” herself in a more intimate fashion, she gets to see who she really is, as broken, or whole, as she may be.The problem arises when she doesn’t like what she sees when she looks […]
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Paradigm Changing

Asking questions is the most dangerous thing that a person can do to threaten the current societal paradigm…this is why they try to imprint their own questions onto us through social conditioning; schools, media, political, and religious means. You don’t need to be an activist, you don’t need to change their minds, you don’t even need to stop their actions, you just need to keep asking as many questions as you can, and keep seeking […]
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Does God Really Help Those Who Help Themselves?

The old saying “God helps those who help themselves” may be more true than previously realized, as the freewill of an individual cannot be imposed upon, especially by God. God cannot save you from yourself, She can only give you the necessary tools to dig yourself out of your own self-created prison(s), and then allow you do so. The boundaries of your prison(s) are your perceptions and patterns of relating, they shape your reality and […]
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Integration Creates Neutrality

Integration of the opposites within duality creates energetic neutrality. I see  duality as a binary computer code, with zeroes and one’s, while unity as a ternary computer code, with negative one’s, zeroes, and one’s. Where the predictive nature of duality is imbalanced with haves (one’s or negative one’s) and have not’s (zeroes), which is why there is the perpetual tension between domination and submission.  It can be the dark side with negative one (-1) and zero (0), […]
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Individuation Is Unity

“Full individuation of Self, the apex of individuality, is unity consciousness, as it is the height of unique Self-expression. Unity is not losing yourself into a mass blob of consciousness, it is individuating your Self from it.” ~Nathan & Aline
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Understanding and the Speed of Thought

Have you noticed that there is a type of “understanding” disseminated in many circles, where awareness/consciousness has been divorced from the feminine principle of understanding? They believe that to seek to understand something is thinking, which they label as the ego, and that all thoughts are ego; and that to seek is also a childish game of the ego. But what if all thoughts are not ego, but instead, only the unconscious thoughts are? And […]
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Embrace Your Shadow Side

This is really important to understand, especially in Tantra, as many people use Tantra as a spiritualized excuse to jump into selfish gratification, rather than an opportunity to understand their sexual motivations, to then transform them into something more powerful. * * * * * When we say “embrace your shadow side”, we are not encouraging you to indulge yourself with an orgy of selfish gratification, but rather we are encouraging a compassionate and intimate […]
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The Prison of Reality

It is all real until it is not, it is each person’s task to transform reality into truth one moment at a time. Pretending that your reality isn’t real, because you want a different reality to be true, doesn’t make it less real in the moment. What is truth you ask? Truth is the inside-out integration of the outside-in dualistic opposites, it is a pattern of relating that each person must find within them, however, […]
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Is Sharing the Burden Really Compassionate?

Is sharing the burden, or enabling somebody’s aversion to their own pain and suffering, really compassionate or supportive?  You are not obligated to share your energy and manifestations with anybody else, there is no reason to allow parasites and vampires to feed off of you in the name of fairness, or doing your fair share.  Nobody is entitled to your sovereign wares, just as you’re not entitled to theirs; compassion and support begins after this […]
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Letting Go is Not Positive Thinking

Letting go is not positive thinking, which is an emotional or spiritual escapism to avoid painful feelings and situations.  Letting go is the ability to face your painful feelings and situations head on, to become intimate with them, and to understand them fully; it neutralizes the painful charge associated with the negative feelings and situations.  Letting go doesn’t embrace the positive to avoid the negative, it embraces and reconciles both to experience a life of […]
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Disinformation vs. Misinformation

We cannot stress enough the need for heart discernment in today’s digital world, where information spreads like wildfire, heart discernment is our only tool to avoid becoming sheep in the giant flock of humanity. What is true? What is false? What is almost true, but with a slant for purposeful manipulation? Even 1% lie, when the intent is to control the truth, cannot be trusted. When exercised enough, your heart discernment is the tool needed […]
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Children Playing House

The divine union/marriage is the creation and the creator relating as One, but right now, creation is trying to merge with the parasite and other creations, not with God. The perfect balance of all things is God AND the Creation as the One… the universe is NOT completely in balance right now, at least not on Earth. God is not above Creation, that is competitive and again a part of THE LIE, God and Creation […]
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Politically Correct Self-Respect

It’s now very common to hear people say, “I’m rather offended by that.”  As if that gives them certain rights.  It’s actually nothing more…than a shine.  “I find that offensive.”  It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be repeated as a phrase.  “I am offended by that.”  Well, so fucking what.” ~Stephen Fry Political correctness and supposed “self-respect” ends the conversation prior to either party gaining awareness or understanding […]
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Why Am I Feeling this Way?

If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […]
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