Entitled Children of God

We often act as an entitled child in relationship to God/Universe/Higher Power, thinking that we are owed many good things for our good deeds and acts of compassion. The thinking goes, I do good things for others, and they should do good things for me too; and I serve God, and “He” should reward me for that, right? However, there is a limiting belief related to what exactly is a gift and what is not…for […]
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Tap Out the Limiting Belief that Setting Boundaries is NOT Loving

For some people, setting boundaries can be a guilt ridden affair, as they feel punishing and unloving by setting healthy limits. It is usually the tyrants and dictators of the family that seem to have no problem setting boundaries, so an association is made in the brain between limits and being a callous and unloving jerk. The problem is, tyrants do not set healthy limits, they are controlling and hot tempered, they demonstrate that they […]
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Setting Good Limits

“Setting good limits is one of the best ways to take care of yourself.” ~Love and Logic Institute It is important to realize though, that limits and boundaries never tell a person what to do, nor do they punish people for not doing it our way, setting limits is telling people what we will and will not do, and allowing natural consequences to do the rest.   Again, natural consequences is NOT a punishment! Example:  “I only […]
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