In previous videos we discussed what boundaries are and are not, and tapped out misunderstandings in regards to them. However, in this video, we discuss the limiting belief pattern that makes boundaries a necessity to our survival, and then we generically tap on the belief. Deep down, the chaos in the world around us, and especially in those close to us, bothers us–for it reminds us of us. So we find ways to disconnect from, or fix, their chaotic lives, to help us feel that we’re in order. Think of it as a type of OCD, where we fix others and put them “in order” to avoid our own inner disorder, but if we instead seek to uncover and unify our own chaos within, we can finally see a new reality reflected back to us–that of trust.
Previous Videos on Boundaries:
Misconceptions About Boundaries – EFT w/ Nathan Martin
Tap Out the Limiting Belief that Setting Boundaries is NOT Loving – EFT w/ Nathan Martin