The Prison of Reality

It is all real until it is not, it is each person’s task to transform reality into truth one moment at a time. Pretending that your reality isn’t real, because you want a different reality to be true, doesn’t make it less real in the moment. What is truth you ask? Truth is the inside-out integration of the outside-in dualistic opposites, it is a pattern of relating that each person must find within them, however, […] Read more »

Is Sharing the Burden Really Compassionate?

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Is sharing the burden, or enabling somebody’s aversion to their own pain and suffering, really compassionate or supportive?  You are not obligated to share your energy and manifestations with anybody else, there is no reason to allow parasites and vampires to feed off of you in the name of fairness, or doing your fair share.  Nobody is entitled to your sovereign wares, just as you’re not entitled to theirs; compassion and support begins after this […] Read more »

Letting Go is Not Positive Thinking

Letting go is not positive thinking, which is an emotional or spiritual escapism to avoid painful feelings and situations.  Letting go is the ability to face your painful feelings and situations head on, to become intimate with them, and to understand them fully; it neutralizes the painful charge associated with the negative feelings and situations.  Letting go doesn’t embrace the positive to avoid the negative, it embraces and reconciles both to experience a life of […] Read more »

Disinformation vs. Misinformation

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We cannot stress enough the need for heart discernment in today’s digital world, where information spreads like wildfire, heart discernment is our only tool to avoid becoming sheep in the giant flock of humanity. What is true? What is false? What is almost true, but with a slant for purposeful manipulation? Even 1% lie, when the intent is to control the truth, cannot be trusted. When exercised enough, your heart discernment is the tool needed […] Read more »

A Labyrinth of Mirrors

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There are several layers of mirror work to be done in each person’s life, in the overall individuation process, the last two being shadow work and anima/animus work (fem/masc). Each personality of Source here on earth is stuck in a labyrinth of mirrors, some of them funny, inverted and warped mirrors, and each must use the mirrors to learn about the limiting beliefs that separate the individual from Source, to find their way out into […] Read more »

Children Playing House

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The divine union/marriage is the creation and the creator relating as One, but right now, creation is trying to merge with the parasite and other creations, not with God. The perfect balance of all things is God AND the Creation as the One… the universe is NOT completely in balance right now, at least not on Earth. God is not above Creation, that is competitive and again a part of THE LIE, God and Creation […] Read more »

Positive Thinking?

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“Positive thinking is the ultimate way to distract and disconnect ourselves from our perceived flaws, imperfections, quirks, uniquenesses, the secret darkness that we try so hard to hide. We strive to cover up the ‘bad’ aspects of our experience without actually dealing with them, facing them, embracing them, healing them, loving them. We stop seeing the beauty, and perhaps even the awesome potential, in the ‘negativity’. Reject half of life, and we will surely always […] Read more »

Judgment vs. Discernment

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Q: What is the difference between Judgment and discernment? A:  I think that with judgment, there is a resistance to seeing the whole picture. It’s a reaction from a limited point of view… Discernment is open to more points of view, and is a response from having received all available data… The same line or boundary can be drawn, but discernment is responsive whereas judgement is reactive… When something is taken just at face value, […] Read more »

Do All Paths Lead to God?

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I’m sure you’ve heard the politically correct saying “all paths lead to God”, but do they really? Does a parasitical path of leaching, sucking, and draining others really lead to God and unity consciousness? Asking “why” to understand yourself out of your parasitic tendencies, while you are still stuck within the system, is the path towards reconnecting with God, but spiritualizing away the guilt and shame to continue in parasitical behavior isn’t pure, it’s taking […] Read more »

Politically Correct Self-Respect

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It’s now very common to hear people say, “I’m rather offended by that.”  As if that gives them certain rights.  It’s actually nothing more…than a shine.  “I find that offensive.”  It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be repeated as a phrase.  “I am offended by that.”  Well, so fucking what.” ~Stephen Fry Political correctness and supposed “self-respect” ends the conversation prior to either party gaining awareness or understanding […] Read more »

No Longer a Need for Beliefs When…

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Behavior is the product of beliefs, which are unconscious patterns of relating to Self and others. When a person is fully conscious and understands why they behave and relate as they do, they no longer have beliefs; for them, the unconscious has become conscious. ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

One Reason Why We Blame

“Sometimes we will keep people around us that carry the potential to harm us, so that if something happens, we can blame them for the trouble and pain we feel.  Our security wound will intentionally attract a freedom wound person as a friend or lover as an insurance policy for our own safety, as it feels safer to have somebody to blame for a misdeed than to own all of our own feelings, patterns, and […] Read more »

Sexual Sensitivity & Relationship Roles

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The following are some observations of ours based on our own experiences with sexual sensitivity, and how it relates to relationship patterns and types within this dualistic dimension. There are two roles that a person can experience within a relationship, based on the pole pairing that they fit best into, the heart poles are the parent role, while the root poles are the children role. Two children can come together sexually and experience amazing sex […] Read more »

Heart or Ego Choices?

If you find that you continually get burned by bad romantic decisions, you’re not discerning with your heart, you’re making choices from your egoic beliefs. The heart does not make bad choices, get you into trouble, or cause suffering, it always makes decisions that are beneficial for the highest good of all. Each pain you feel is because your egoic beliefs have put you into a compromised situation, not your heart. To choose from your […] Read more »

Disclosure Will Happen When…

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Disclosure between the government and the people will never fully happen until you are able to tell the truth to those you love. If you do not think that your loved ones can handle the responsibility the truth brings, and continue to remain over responsible for their feelings by keeping the truth of your feelings a secret, the government will keep reflecting this belief system back to you. Do you have skeletons in your closet […] Read more »

The Simple Life

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To an untrained heart, asking “why” to understand may seem complicated and unnecessary, while finding a “how” solution to skirt around uncomfortable feelings may feel simpler.  We agree, digging out of the web of lies that you have buried yourself in can feel quite complicated, but once the lies are all gone, life becomes extremely simple.  ~Nathan & Aline Read more »

Being Unique Makes us One

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Being unique, not the same, is what makes us One. Coming together for a cause or patriotism is a lower form of unity, it is enmeshing (uniting) through the same pain, to end the perceived source of the pain (somewhere out there)…higher unity is working together as unique functions, each doing their own unique thing to support the greater whole to promote peace, love, and joy. “Nature is busy creating absolutely unique individuals, whereas culture […] Read more »

Why Am I Feeling this Way?

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If you get into an argument and feel sad, afraid, or angry, instead of blaming the other person for your feelings, try asking yourself “why am I feeling this way?”, and keep asking “why” until you fully understand each and every reason “why” you feel that way in that moment.  Any understanding that ends with “because they” is still blaming the other for your own feelings, patterns and experiences; it is not personal responsibility, but […] Read more »