Avoiding Being Present Through Presence

Being a professional EFT practitioner and working with emotions for several years, with literally thousands upon thousands of hours exploring emotional patterns, pain, and suffering, we can definitely attest that it is imperative to meditate with the intent to understand your Self, especially your emotional dark side. Clearing emotional pain with understanding creates a clear mind, body, and spirit, while meditating to clear the mind without attempting to understand your Self, we have found to […]
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The Circular Flow of the Divine Marriage

The feminine brings understanding to her masculine, her heart is her giving organ from the divine, while the masculine offers wisdom to his feminine, his genitals are his giving organ from the earth; this is the circular flow of the Divine Marriage. –Nathan & Aline
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“How” to Ask Yourself “Why” Questions

Did you know that you create your own reality? As a child, you pull in the limiting patterns and beliefs from your parents, schools, society, and family of origin, through your experiences and interactions with them; these patterns become unconscious rules to live by, which are repeated for the rest of your life. The feelings that you experience are the messengers that reflect (like a mirror) back to you what your expectations, patterns, rules, and […]
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Your Superhero Lies Within

“On some level, humanity feels that they need superheroes to defeat the evil “out there”, powerful external beings to oppose the external threats to their security, happiness, and general well being. Ironically though, it is only after a person conquers their own evil within, through the transformative power of understanding, that they are able to experience such superhuman powers; their superhero is not out there, it lies within.” ~Nathan & Aline
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Spiritual Bypassing

Having an enlightened ego, what Robert Augustus Masters calls “spiritual bypassing“, is the tendency of the ego to hide behind spirituality and enlightened actions and language to protect itself from being seen or eradicated.  In what ways has your ego played the enlightenment game of spiritual bypassing?  Do you avoid your pain to act enlightened and spiritual?  Why do you think you do this? “What spiritual bypassing (the use of spiritual practices and beliefs to avoid dealing with our […]
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Happiness is a ‘State of Being’, not a ‘State of Doing’

Behind the fallacy of changing what you are ‘doing’ to be happy is the limiting belief that you can ‘do’ something to be happy in the first place, as happiness is a state of ‘being’ and not a state of ‘doing’. Changing what you’re ‘doing’ is a temporary distraction until you figure out that you’re still just as unhappy after the change. Only Self-understanding and awareness can trigger a change in your ‘being’, and for […]
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How to Stand Up to Tyranny

Here is a way to stand up to tyrannical behavior that actually works: Instead of resisting the “how” actions of a bully, manipulator, and controlling person with your own “how” actions and defiance, ask them “why” they feel that they must behave in such a controlling and abusive way. This must be done with an open heart and an earnest desire to understand them though, which will put the offender in a position to understand […]
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